They pulled up behind him in a parking lot, got out and talked to him normally, at which time I walked up from the other side of the parking lot. Her uncle asked to see the keys, and upon receiving them, began taking the car key off of the ring, and waved me forward. I walked up, took the car key from him, looked at the guy, and said "Hi, my name is Frizzmaster, and this is my car.
I'm taking it now. I found out later that day that he had packed everything and left her. Plus, she had been using the money I sent her every month to pay for his court costs and child support costs. Well, months went by, our court date came up, and my lawyer recommended that I file for sole use of the vehicle and the property, since it was obvious that she had committed adultery and didn't have a leg to stand on.
We go to court, she counter-files for the exact same, and since she refused to release the results of a paternity test, I get stonewalled. The exact words used by the judge were "I'm sorry, but without proof of paternity of the child, I cannot, in good conscience, approve either of these motions.
So, we set a new date for a private hearing with the judge, and we wait. Nearly 3 months go by, and the court date was finally near. I walked into the courthouse, met up with my lawyer who had a demonic glint in his eye at the time, and I was about to find out why , went into the courtroom, and waited. The judge came in 5 minutes later, the court was called to order, and the divorce trial commenced. Here, I found out just what had given my lawyer the twinkle in his eye earlier on.
He proceeded to ask TC a series of questions, including:. Basically, he questioned her into a legal corner in which she either had to answer truthfully, or lie and suffer the legal ramifications of perjury in the face of easily provable evidence. She answered truthfully lucky for her , and the court case continued.
She presented her argument, littered with dirt she was trying to throw on me, insults to my person, questions about my sexual orientation, and claims that I was having a relationship with her 18 year old cousin. I, falling back on my military training, simply sat up straight, folded my hands in front of me on the table, and stared at a spot on the wall slightly above the judges' left shoulder. I answered every question asked of me, offered no personal opinions, threw no dirt, and refused to sink to her level and question her sexuality.
Subsequently, she had a more and more confused look on her face as I refrained from bad-mouthing her like she was doing me, and the divorce trial went by rather fast. At the conclusion of the trial, the judge looked over the paperwork submitted one last time, then looked to the both of us.
The judge took one last look over the papers, set them down, and spoke the greatest words I have ever heard in my life. The legal separation defense has its limits.
That is, it is not an affirmative defense if the accused is legally separated but the co- actor is still married. By the same token, it is an affirmative defense if the accused is legally separated and the co-actor is unmarried. Commanders and those responsible for prosecuting such offenses will ask a number of questions about the conduct before making a final determination of whether to move ahead with a case, non-judicial punishment, or other steps.
One of the most important questions that will be asked involves the circumstances of the conduct. Was it a one-time incident unlikely to happen again? Were there aggravating factors involved such as alcohol or other issues that might complicate the issue? And was there an actual breakdown of good order and discipline or did the conduct truly bring discredit upon the military? Parents spent hours waiting to grab the first COVID vaccination appointments for children ages 5 to 11 at the largest U.
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All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed. You should show your spouse this article, which explains some reasons not to disclose the affair to command, once a spouse has learned about it. Step 3: You should see if you and your spouse can come to an agreement that would involve your spouse not disclosing the adultery to your command. You should approach this thoughtfully. Do not approach your spouse to negotiate the divorce when they have just learned about the affair.
Also, until you are divorced, it would be best to cease your extramarital relationship. Step 4. You should not admit to the affair to your spouse in writing, text, email, orally could be recorded , or in any form. Admitting to the affair could help your spouse meet one of the elements of adultery as a crime, which is proving that the adultery in fact took place. Realize that spouses do sometimes hire private detectives to obtain proof of your behavior when they become suspicious of it.
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